My best guess is that the dead are at peace by now, having been processed through whatever lines exist in the afterlife by this time, even with the sudden influx. The same cannot be said for the living.
Jaded as I am, I made my donation to tsunami relief today on behalf of my wife and I. I only did so after a long and thorough review of various charities. I already have enough money stolen and wasted by Uncle Sam and various state and local tin pot dictators. It would pain me greatly to throw more away thinking I was helping disaster victims only to find out later my money was used to pad the pockets of a third world petty bureacrat.
If you haven’t yet, please consider making a donation. We decided to give to the Samaritan’s Purse due to a variety of reasons.